Happily Unhappy!!



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Okays I wasn't feeling so good and so I'm gonna write something very common these days among people that is betrayal.

Teenage is a very common age when many of us go through infinite highs and lows unknowingly, may it be in the form of betrayal or self-destruction. It is not because teenagers are innocent, but just because they are gullible, they can trust someone very easily or love someone deeply. It is a very common emotion among children and youth experiencing betrayal in love. These betrayals not only destroy them as a person but also break their trust. Love is perhaps the best thing we do. But can even turn into the worst thing possible. Some people will break your trust and will still live a happy life leaving you to suffer alone, but got to stay strong. If you are dealing with these types of people remember that you deserve better and to keep your boundaries or set boundaries if you haven't already. Your mental health is important. Life's unpredictable just like some texts has never got an answer. 


The pure soul always faces breakdown but they have to fight for right and close their heart's door for the past to revive themselves. Love can be hard to find. There are days where love makes little sense to you. It makes you feel unfit for this new world where dating is fingertips away and breakups happen over texts.

For us, love has always been more about giving than taking – you like to write letters more than you like writing long texts and keep pictures in your gallery instead of uploading them as Instagram stories. You like sunsets, long walks, and quietness instead of loud music and crowded places. You like to experience every day of life instead of just getting by.

You don’t seek validation through likes or comfort in one-night stands. but, sometimes you feel alone – when there’s no one to tell you that it’s okay to be sad. And when that feeling kicks in, it throws you off your guard and you can’t help but notice all this lonesome inside you. This feeling you can’t get rid of and the emptiness which you cannot seem to fill with any number of matches and right swipes.


And at that moment, you feel you’re not ready for love. That maybe love is hard to find. But to tell you the truth, love will find you, and if it doesn’t that’s okay, too. You’re enough. Just don’t settle for a temporary, virtual love, only because you’re feeling lonely. Wait for that someone will that extra mile in the middle of the night for you.


Maybe it's just the thought that you were so easy to be replaced.


Remember:

You can rise from anything. You can completely recreate yourself. Nothing is permanent. You’re not stuck. You have choices. You can think of new thoughts. You can learn something new. You can create new habits. All that matters is that you decide today and never look back. Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can’t change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Take chances. Give everything and have no regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad. Smile when you’re sad. Love what you got and always remember what you had. Always forgive but never forget. Learn from your mistakes but never regret them. People change and things go wrong. But always remember life goes on. There are moments in life when a single hug holds all the answers you need. But you have to wait for it. Why hold on to someone? It's going to be difficult but one can always try. There is a reason for them not to be a part of your next chapter and what if the next chapter turns out to be one of the best ones of your story!

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